Posts Tagged ‘memoir’

Cover story for REPLACEMENT CHILD

Monday, August 23rd, 2010

Replacement Child is cover story

Listen to the Newest Discussion for Replacement Child on Syndicated Radio Show

Wednesday, July 28th, 2010

Last week I had the pleasure of talking with Kim Iverson of Your Time with Kim on her syndicated radio program, broadcast in nine metro areas.  We talked about some misconceptions out there about replacement children and how parents can avoid some of the negative effects on children they decide to have after losing a child.  Briefly, we touched on the Travolta/Preston news that they are expecting–wishing them the best with adding to their family.

You can listen to this latest discussion here.  Thanks for tuning in! Let me know your thoughts about it on the blog.

Watch a Reading of Replacement Child

Tuesday, July 27th, 2010

In April, I was invited to read from my book Replacement Child at Central Connecticut State University. You can watch the video of that reading here. Just scroll down the page to the video.

Hope you enjoy it!

Remembering Letters from My Father this Father’s Day

Thursday, June 17th, 2010

This Father’s Day I’m choosing to focus on the letters my father wrote to me in his later years.  Those are the thoughts and feelings I want to remember as his true ones–the ones he submerged for most of my childhood.  For some reason, it was only in written form that my dad could tell me how he felt about me.  I’m grateful he found a way, otherwise I would have always felt that his distant attitude toward me was the only truth of our relationship.

If you’ve read Replacement Child, you’ll recognize parts of the following from Chapter Fifty-Six in the book:

I’m reading through letters from my father. He had such a beautiful handwriting, and–surprisingly–was the better of my parents at expressing his emotions on paper.  Whenever I find one of letters to me, buried in a sock drawer or folded in among my jewelry, I wind up blubbering at his words. I never heard these kinds of thoughts from his own lips, and never knew them as a child.  Almost all of his letters to me were written after I was an adult, and most after he was 70.

As I look back now, many of his letters still defined me in terms of my sister:

Even when we felt you were being neglected you showed strength and understanding to love Linda as much as we did, and to show that love to her.

Or, I was their hope, their healer, that he finally learned to love:

One of the greatest gifts given to us at an essential time of our lives was when the gods delivered you into our hearts and lives.  Your birth helped sustain us with some faith and hope.  It’s taken me a lifetime–but you’ve taught me to say it and feel it–I love you and it’s forever.

I know Dad, I finally know.

New Radio Interview for Replacement Child

Wednesday, June 2nd, 2010

New #radio interview for Replacement Child. Listen to Meet the Author interview of Judy Mandel.

Tips to Unblock #Writers Block: Installment #1

Friday, March 5th, 2010

Whether you are #writing a #memoir, or anything that requires creative juice, there will be times when nothing comes to you.  I like to think of the Grateful Dead song with the line “heads all empty and I don’t care”–but the truth is I do care.  I care a lot! And, if you are a writer working on a project, or trying to find your next project–I know you care too. So, I thought I’d share some of the ways I’ve found to combat the dreaded empty head. So, here is your Friday afternoon tip:

Go to the library.

It may sound simple. But, especially if you are looking for a new project, this can unstick even the most stuck brain cells. You can do this from your office using the Internet–but I find having all those books around me has some kind of magical power.

Bring a small notebook with you to the library. Make yourself a list of possible topics that interest you, either from a factual or fictional viewpoint. Proceed to the computerized card catalog and look up any and all related topics that may help spark your imagination. When you have five or six books or articles you want to read, go find them and start leafing through. Don’t be afraid to get side-tracked.  In fact, that might be the best thing that can happen.  You may just wind up going down a road you had never envisioned before–so keep an open mind and have fun.  This is your brain on information saturation–and it’s a beautiful thing! Let’s face it, we have no clue where our best ideas come from.  Feed your brain fascinating facts and it will reward you with a journey into your imagination.

Let me know if you have some helpful tips of your own to share in the comments section here.  I’ll be adding to the list each week, too, so sign on the RSS of the blog to be sure to get the next installment.

Happy writing!!

New Video Interview – Judy Mandel

Wednesday, February 3rd, 2010

Watch it at http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4cHUdDJC9oo&feature=youtube_gdata

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