Posts Tagged ‘death of a child’

“The replacement child–a developmental tragedy”

Friday, July 30th, 2010

SpringerLink – Journal Article.

Van Gogh’s Fantasies of Replacement: Being a Double and a Twin — Blum 57 6: 1311 — Journal of the American Psychoanalytic Association

Thursday, July 29th, 2010

Van Gogh’s Fantasies of Replacement: Being a Double and a Twin — Blum 57 6: 1311 — Journal of the American Psychoanalytic Association.

I love this one!

Listen to the Newest Discussion for Replacement Child on Syndicated Radio Show

Wednesday, July 28th, 2010

Last week I had the pleasure of talking with Kim Iverson of Your Time with Kim on her syndicated radio program, broadcast in nine metro areas.  We talked about some misconceptions out there about replacement children and how parents can avoid some of the negative effects on children they decide to have after losing a child.  Briefly, we touched on the Travolta/Preston news that they are expecting–wishing them the best with adding to their family.

You can listen to this latest discussion here.  Thanks for tuning in! Let me know your thoughts about it on the blog.

#Desperate Housewives and Psych Link

Monday, January 11th, 2010

So–I’m looking out my window and this big old black crow is yelling at me in a hoarse voice. Staring right at me as I type and demanding that I pay attention. A friend’s words about the dead and how their souls take up residence in birds for a time after their death haunts me, makes me pay attention. How crazy do I sound?

Ok–so this will be a pretty disjointed post, to go along with how my mind works in abstract distracted thought patterns. Also why I have 10 different ideas for themes of my next book, and have started none yet.

First, watching mind junk TV last night I couldn’t help but draw parallels from Desperate Housewives to Replacement Child. How absurd is that? But, the plane crash into the little house, the killed and injured and saved, the subsequent loss of a child (Lynette’s baby) are so thematically reminiscent of my memoir, that I couldn’t let go of it. Will Lynette’s surviving twin be a replacement child? Will they continue to develop on the theme of her loss of her child as they started to do in last night’s episode?

And, then I see that Replacement Child just got a new review posted today that notes that the book would be a good read for those who counsel people who are going through the grieving process. I was delighted to see that they thought Replacement Child could be of some help in that regard. Even though the specifics of tragedies may differ, grief is remarkably the same. It is a process, and a little bird told me that it lessens but does not fly away.

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